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"me and ms. lucas are working together; we are a team"

When I think of parent-teacher communication, I immediately think of the trope parent-teacher conferences. The conferences that most students dread because it is the one opportunity the teacher has to let the parent know about all the bad behaviours, missed assignments, and failed exams. These one-off meetings instill the impression that school is completely separate from home; that the environments have nothing in common and should rarely meet. Of course, we understand that the most sucessful students have a higher level of parental involvement and part of our jobs as educators is to encourage that involvement. 

 

Encouraging parental involvement can be a delicate issue. I think many parents still think of school as an institution that is isolated from them. Many parents may consider education solely up to the teachers and wish to "leave it to the professionals". Others may want to provide some level of input, but do not feel their opinions are welcome. 

 

 

To overcome this, and to build lasting, positive relationships with parents, I will keep open an open, steady, and meaningful line of communication. Edutopia outlines a number of ways to build meaningful relationships with parents here. From this list, and from class discussions, I have decided to take a more pointed approach to communicating with parents. Specifically, what I communicate will go beyond missed assignments and the topics we are studying this week. I want to provide parents with communication regarding what they care about the most - their children. Of course, weekly, online, updates regarding our school work provides parents with insight into our classroom and lets them know our class is transparent but more meaningful communication is crucial. Depending on my grade level, I will make my best attempt to call home or email each family, primarily as a means of introducing myself and encourage them to drop by for a visit. After that, I think intermittent positive phone calls home will go a long way. A simple phone call home to let a parent know the great thing their kid did that day will let the parent know that I care about their child as more than a grade on a paper. Once a parent knows that a teacher is invested in their child, beyond his or her grades, the parent is more likely to develop a trusting relationship with the teacher. As well, this phone call allows an opportunity for the parent to let me know of anything that is on their mind - things that they may have wanted to discuss with me but have not yet found the time. This open communication works to establish ourselves as partners in the child's education, two entities who both care about not only the successes of the child, but the child as a human being.

In this video, Natina expresses how much she appreciates constant, positive, communication from her child's teacher. She "absolutely enjoys" receiving texts and picture messages from her child's teacher. Natina goes on to say, "I put a trust in Ms. Lucas for doing that [communicating] no matter what she said." "She is a person I will always hold in a high regard, she will always have my respect."

 

For once, we finally see a parent telling us what they really value and we can see how far a little communication goes in building a positive, lasting relationship. What this video does for me is it actually articulates, from a parent perspective, the positive effects a good relationship can have. I want the parents of my students to be as happy as Natina. This is what I will strive for. 

family & peers

Explain one specific way you can build positive relationships with parents.

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